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Friday
Aug282009

Why do Men Cheat?

Reader Comments (58)

This is soooooooooo really you said that!
September 10, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterMags
I've viewed two of your videos thus far and I have to say that I am at a loss for words. In a good way. First I am excited that there are young men that not only love God but are able to get past themselves and share their love for God along with their godly knowledge to others. Second the knowledge that you pass on is actually accurate and biblical. I'm not in any position to rank anyone and their work but I do choose to send my KUDOS to you and encourage you to keep up the good work.May the grace of the Lord be with your spirit.
September 11, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterFaith
OMG THAT WAS SO DEEP! u know how they say the truth hurts? i felt that, its so true.I just wanna say that line was QUALITY! keep up the good work!
September 14, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterToks
Nice insight! Shared it on my site: http://www.jayhyper.com. Also created a back-link to your site. Thanks man! Your blogs are so inspiring!
September 14, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJay Hyper Entertainment
this was a cool view, but i dont agree with about 90% of it. i've written about why men cheat couple of time before (see - http://reyshizz.com/thegraduate/why-do-men-cheat-part-35/) and i come at it from a different angle. I do agree that people (for the most part) are selfish (in a bad way) but i think that behavior is learned through the people around us. check out my explanation and let me know what you think.
September 15, 2009 | Unregistered Commenterrey
Wow! this was the truth! I have been watching your videos and reading your posts and I'm kind of at a loss for words, in a good way though. I liked that you kept it so real. So many people go by these stupid rules they make for males and females that are dating which is why so many relationships today are unsuccessful. I began to actually convince myself that maybe we males/females have to go through these trials and tribulations to find the right person, but we don't have to as I am learning and am continuing to learn from your posts. You are doing an amazing job. Keep it up!
September 15, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterEnnie
I'm from Nigeria. My people are very religious. Pray in the morning noon and night. I would say majority of the young nigerian men I know go to church every sunday without anyone telling them too. But Nigerian men are one of the biggest cheaters in the world.

Now I liked your blog... there is some truth to it in terms of the flesh and understanding what is happening. But I think it has more to do with society and what has been deemed acceptable for men. For example...if a man cheated on his woman and his boys looked down upon him for it as opposed to bigging it up....he'd be less likely to commit adultry. But because it's almost a right of passage...men do and will continue to cheat.
September 15, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterMpress
Dude, you are the REALIST!!!
September 16, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterBianca Frasier
Lewis great observation...Everything you mention about why men cheat is true.... You broke it down and let me realize a guys perspective.. thanks
September 16, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterMOnique A
It's the flesh. It's in "his" nature. Aren't women flesh? Just wondering?
September 16, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterNia
THANK YOU, THANK YOU I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT
September 16, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterFAITH ENOGIERU
this was good
September 17, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterTamara Tammy Hunter
You tell emm
September 17, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterTamara Tammy Hunter
There is hope for the hopeless sinner!
September 17, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterHawa
Love is love, sex is sex...

Sex with love is great, but its just as good without it. LOL...

My momma told me that.
September 18, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterHunnyb
One of my male friends said it best,...



every man goes thru a period in his life, where its all about his d*ck, until he grows out of it, its not worth trying to keep him seated. LOL
September 18, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterHunnyb
Sell off!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Translation: Excellent vid, sir.
September 19, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJojo
Thank you.
September 21, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterAngelica
women are flesh, yeah, but we made different. we have our own wrongs that we lean to. PREACH son!!! "if he cheat on God, then he'll cheat on you" --could not have said it clearer. THANK YOU!
September 21, 2009 | Unregistered Commentertasha
I must say - real talk for the young minds of today! In these times these kids just don't get it - thanks for keeping it real. Stay in prayer and keep planting seeds!And for the record for some of your posters - we are accountable to our God first - our society and our religious sects are groups made up of sinners. They WILL fail you at some point. If you base your life decisions and choices on the practices and norms of them without the guidance of God's will for your life, you are destined for spiritual death. Just because you do something wrong and then get positive reinforcement for it from some other misguided person doesn't make it right to do.
September 22, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterQT
The video blogs have been great.

People, if your going to say something is true then learn to accept the whole truth and not just the parts that you feel apply to you. Its called the whole truth for a reason. Its not religion, its relationship and we all need one with Jesus to even get to talk to God cause we are all sinners in God's eyes.

If a man can cheat on God, he can cheat on anybody and thats being real. If your man or woman doesn't have a relationship with the Lord then they cannot do right. Sin is Sin and we all fall short.
September 23, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterDaynier
Man I love this site!!! you keep it so real, not only that but you back it with word! I cant hate on ya at all. Keep doin whatcha doin and to add onto what you've already said the bible says in prov 27:20 that the eyes of a man are NEVER satisfied.
September 24, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterOmolayo
I totally agree with everything you said in this video except the part about Job's wife. She said "Why don't you curse your God and die!" The devil came to him in the one closest to him and still failed!!! I am glad that your doing these videos that will help the young and the old to make better choices in life. KEEP THE VIDEOS COMING
September 24, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterElla
You are not honoring God with the language you use. Your point can be made without the foul language.
September 24, 2009 | Unregistered Commenterrrs
Brother Lou!WOW!!! I am impressed....A REAL SOUL!!! It's been my experience that Men cheat due to Yes, the flesh and a short attention span...Keep the video blogs coming...I'll continue to share!!! HIS WISDOM TO YOU!!!!
September 26, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterRahRah

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